Why the Time is Right for Tiger Woods to Return to Golf
Amid all of the rumors about Tiger Woods' activities - be they in sex rehab or some guess of a return at some PGA Tour stop in the next 90 days - there is a clear tone in the writing about Woods. It appears that fans and media have had their fun and are now longing for Woods to end this charade and return to the sport of golf.
The tide is turning for Woods on this story. Reading various blog postings about the recent comments from golf legend Tom Watson about Woods, his affairs, and how he should handle his return, Watson is taking a beating.
It began when Watson briefly spoke in an interview with a Kansas City television station about an action plan for Woods when he returns. A variety of outlets posted the video of the interview. Tiger fans - or pseudo-golf fans eagerly awaiting his return - commented en masse on these sites to slam Watson and his advice.
Curiously enough, the advice that Watson offered was the very same advice that almost every writer on the planet offered to Woods in the early days and weeks following his automobile accident. It was simple: come back with humility, disclose information about the whole situation, and vow to do better in the future. That advice was lauded by the thundering herd of society that wanted to get in every shot that they could at Woods during the surely brief period in his career in which he was not above serious reproach.
Months later, though - in fact, almost three months after anyone has last verifiably seen Woods in public - that same advice is criticized. Watson, a man who answers questions asked of him in a way that Woods simply doesn't, continues to respond to inquiries about how he would hope Woods would behave in his return. Again, Watson is not saying anything in his comments that is any different or harsher than what was spewed by the minute following Woods' admission of an extramarital affair.
But, still, my blogging brethren seem none too pleased with Watson and have written posts slamming him. The Examiner called Watson a "gasbag," and rehashing that it was Watson who penned a letter demanding that McCord be removed from Masters telecasts for his "bikini wax" comment about Augusta's greens. Sports by Brooks penned a piece talking about the destruction of Watson's first marriage, his strained relationship with his son, and his second marriage to the ex-wife of Champions Tour colleague Denis Watson. Rick Chandler at NBC Sports' Out of Bounds called Watson a "creaky, onion-belted golf legend."
In no way am I saying that Watson is above reproach or that these writers are wrong to post what they did. Hardly. But, when Watson was on the precipice of winning the Open Championship in July, no one could say a bad thing about the guy. If Watson had said what he did no December 1 instead of late January and early February, I suspect that the guy would have been labeled courageous. Now, though, Watson isn't getting that treatment.
If there's one thing to know about public relations and knowing when to make a move, it's understanding the pulse of the people. Now, the pulse says that the public appears tired of demeaning Woods and his personal failures. They had their fun in bringing down their hero and, in typical fashion, are now longing to resurrect him to incredible highs.
It's really nothing personal against Watson. This is just how the cycle works. And now that people are ready to forgive (though never forget), Woods can return to golf. While I'm still very skeptical that anyone can know when Woods will return to golf, it does seem that public sentiment is turning in his favor.
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Timing was always right
I’ve been waiting for Tiger to start playing again since he signed his final-round scorecard at the HSBC Champions. If you’re a golf/sports fan, how can you seriously say the greatest player ever shouldn’t play because of all of this? The timing can be right or wrong according to the media, but anyone who isn’t anxious for Woods to come back is missing the point. Seriously.
Eli Miller
http://www.southlandgolfmagazine.com
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/millertimegolf
I would agree that anytime Tiger (or any good player) plays, I’m happy. But from the perspective of how his return inside the ropes would be received, I disagree with you entirely. Had he played in his event in December, he would’ve been KILLED publicly. Now, I think people would love to see him at his craft and care less about his marriage and personal life.
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by Ryan Ballengee on Feb 5, 2010 12:36 PM EST up reply actions
Ultimately...
Would it have mattered if “he would’ve been killed publicly?” He will take flack no matter when he decides to return to the limelight — it would have been denser in December, but it would have had more time to erode prior to 2010.
Wouldn’t it be great if he makes an announcement next Friday, right before Valentine’s Day?
Eli Miller
http://www.southlandgolfmagazine.com
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/millertimegolf
by SouthlandGolf on Feb 5, 2010 2:04 PM EST up reply actions
Why is it time for Tiger to “return” ? (as if he has actually been away more than 2 weeks – his tournament and Torrey Pines) Because it’s golf season and he’s a PGA Tour player.
Does he HAVE to come back ? Don’t be silly – he has things to work out – then Elin will get tired of having him hanging around the house and tell him to go make her a few hundred thousand for shopping expenses.
And to all those media types who had “fun” (good choice of words RB) tearing the guy down and now want him back so they can go back to their leaching way of life – here’s hoping that Tiger comes back and ignores any and all attempts to ask questions by any of these people. They don’t deserve his attention.
"this ball will fit in that fairway"
By “return,” I mean end his self-imposed indefinite leave. C’mon, Court, I know we get into nitpicking fights but that was pretty clear.
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by Ryan Ballengee on Feb 5, 2010 12:35 PM EST up reply actions
Sorry Ryan,
I disagree with all the so called and self styled experts….These “writers” and I use the term loosely, must get paid by the word…they go from one ol dog to another like so many fleas…If anyone puts any credence in what they write, they also believe in the tooth fairy. CG’s post just popped up, and he is right on….All the fun we had posting about his problems and poking fun at him was just that….so much fun….he owes nobody anything other than to play golf….The rest is between he and Elin….but these scum bum writers will still be on their rants no matter what… such sorry little people….STUB
I haven't missed him yet
Mainly because he normally only plays once between the end of the previous season and the WGC match play. Maybe after we get to the point where I expect to see him, I’ll start to miss him.
the issue with Woods going “back to work” is that his job keeps him on the road and away from his family. the family thta he is supposed to be trying to keep together. i think he would have been back sooner had Elin decided to divorce him. now that she is supposedly staying, who knows when he will be back. if she “stays” and he comes back soon i think that would say that she is staying for the “image thing” and the money.
just my opinion.
are you saying that if Elin had decided to divorce him, they would have been done with it by now and Tiger would be mentally ready to play ?
"this ball will fit in that fairway"
I don’t really agree with fg’s assessments, but there’s a big difference between being mentally ready to play and thinking you’re mentally ready to play. We see it with people all the time who lose someone to death. Often, the main thing they want to do is get back to work to get some sense of normalcy back.
true – even with Tiger and his father’s death – came back too soon at the US Open – then won the British and broke down after the win.
"this ball will fit in that fairway"
Great point about Earl
I hadn’t even considered that situation and how he rebounded.
I imagine dealing with a death might even be simpler in some ways because there’s a finality to it. But the agony of a highly public scandal and/or divorce just keeps going on and on and on, possibly for years before there’s that moment of finality to it. And if you have to keep writing checks for a long time, you may never even get to that point mentally.
i’m not talking about being mentally ready. i’m talking about the logistics of being able to get out on tour and work on a relationship that has been danaged the way that his has.
by freeze gopher on Feb 5, 2010 1:36 PM EST up reply actions
Court
no. i’m saying that if his and Elin’s intentions really are to make this marriage work that it will be tough for him to get out on tour and be away from his family. which brings me to the conclusion that he would be back later rather than sooner.
if she had said it is over, i’m divorcing you and moved out, i believe that it would be easier for him to get out on tour sooner.
I agree with you on the divorce front. At that point, I would wonder if golf could be an “escape” for Tiger.
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by Ryan Ballengee on Feb 5, 2010 1:15 PM EST up reply actions
I agree with FG here. I wrote that in a post sometime back...
If Elin just said, “Sorry, big boy, it’s over,” it’s not so much a question of Tiger being mentally ready. It’s more a matter of “do I work on my golf or sit around watching TV, feeling sorry for myself?” We’d probably see Tiger sooner than later, simply because there’d be no real reason to stay home.
But if Elin says “I’ll stay if you give me a good reason,” I think it’s logical that Tiger would take longer to get back out on tour. It simply seems to fit how Tiger does things — he goes all-out, or he doesn’t bother. If he seriously wants to salvage the homefront, I suspect he’ll put most of his efforts into THAT and come back to golf once he’s sure he’s succeeded.
Mike Southern
www.ruthlessgolf.com
by Ruthless Mike on Feb 5, 2010 3:29 PM EST up reply actions
Come back now vs Save his marriage ?
I agree on these points. If he’’s really serious about saving his marriage, then I would seriously doubt that Elin would feel very comfortable with him being away from her for extended periods. Her trust of him has to be about ZERO at the moment. To have him back on Tour with all the Gutter Groupies throwing themselves at TW would simply be impoosible for Elin to accept. If all this “sex addict” craps is genuine and not just PR planning, then he’s gone at least the year. If the marriage is over and ALL this is just for appearances, then he’ll come back and play Bay Hill and Doral before heading to Augusta. If that is how it plays out, then the whole idea of saving the marriage has been an act for his sponsors and public consumption. He’s a serial philanderer, and it’ll take years before Elin will trust him again. This all sounds just a little too disingenuos from my perspective. I’m betting he’s back before Augusta,but his marriage is history. We’ve all been treated to a little “high-school” drama presentation since Thanksgiving, and not a very good one.Too transparent. I’m not convinced for a second that Woods was sincere about his poor decisions. He’s still a phony untill he mans-up and offers a sincere apology to the game and all involved,. I’m wouldn’t bet a nickle on that happening,…but I do hope I’m wrong. We’ll see…………………………..Z.
you're still away,...choke on it !
Tiger shoulda realized that marriage is
the leading cause of divorce.
by TXQ on Feb 5, 2010 3:57 PM EST up reply actions
Then again...
…send him out to play – if he gets in trouble, you know he’s never going to be trustworthy. he’s not going to be alone anymore – he’s going to have all kinds of eyes on him, hoping to catch him doing something he’s not supposed to.
"this ball will fit in that fairway"
What happened here?
Did the statute of limitations expire on “man-who##” ? For a while there you were showing a more compassionate side…. Looks like that was just a phase. Are you going down to Mirana for the Match Play? Didn’t you marshall there last year? No Phil, no Tiger…Probably a whole lot less crowd contol… I think Elin should get him one of those electronic GPS collars. …. Get a Tiger Tracking App for her iphone….
Compassion !
Ping I feel sorry for Woods as a husband and a man. However, he made the decisions that changed public perception of him. He’s still a “man-whore” (LOL) and he’s still the best player on the planet. I don’t see either of those changing anytime soon .I doubt he’ll play at the WGC match play, but I will keep an eye out for him…………………………………………….Z.
you're still away,...choke on it !
come on 3 – if he was a “man-whore” – those women would’ve been paying him ! (“don’t make me he-bitch-man-slap you”) :-D
"this ball will fit in that fairway"
Bitch-slap
Ping,…LOL amigo. You’d best bring a step ladder. How’s your vertical these days ? :-)
you're still away,...choke on it !
Meh?????
Nothing like a Tiger article to invigorate the blog on a cold snowy day! Ryan, you’d better be thinking more about stocking up your larder….pretty soon it’s going to be tough to get to the store.
I went to the store last night! It’s going to be a long weekend.
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by Ryan Ballengee on Feb 5, 2010 4:17 PM EST up reply actions
Good planning!
But what’s “meh” below absolutely?
“meh” means “I don’t really care”
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by Ryan Ballengee on Feb 5, 2010 5:56 PM EST up reply actions
Ryan, 60% of your post was about Tom
Watson and not one of the first 23 comments even mentioned his name.
How about this?
Tom Watson, you can say anything you want.
Ryan Ballengee, you can say anything you want.
Courtgolf, you can say anything you want.
pingforever, you can say anything you want.
TXQ, you can say anything you want.
3Irons, you can say anything you want.
Ruthless Mike, you can say anything you want.
Freeze Gopher, you can say anything you want.
Double Eagle, you can say anything you want.
Thinker, you can say anything you want.
Southland Golf, you can say anything you want.
Regardless of what you say, you won’t change my mind.
Tiger, come back when you choose. If you wish, tell the first media person to ask any question you do wish to answer to go fuck themselves.
I'll keep an eye out for you...at www.oneeyedgolfer.blogspot.com
by One-Eyed Golfer Guy on Feb 5, 2010 4:31 PM EST reply actions
have it your way...
…RB…looks like you’ll have to send that $10,000 prize to someone other than OEG – he doesn’t want it. :-D
"this ball will fit in that fairway"
For what it's worth....
you’ve read my blog enough to know I’m a HUGE Watson fan, Vince. The quote from him was pretty much non-news though, in that it was just what everybody’s been saying since the start, so I made no comment.
But, ironically enough, while 60% of the post may be about Tom, it’s Tiger — not Tom — who’s in the post headline… so I talk Tiger.
Besides, I know you agree that he should save his family first if he can, and then come back. Don’t be playing us, young man! ;-D
Mike Southern
www.ruthlessgolf.com
by Ruthless Mike on Feb 5, 2010 5:24 PM EST up reply actions
Vince, don’t cuss again.
And it was about Watson because that’s the issue around which I feel tells that the general population wants Tiger back.
Of course Tiger can come back at time that he’d like, but this post was entirely about public sentiment – nothing about Tiger’s wish to do so.
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by Ryan Ballengee on Feb 5, 2010 5:58 PM EST up reply actions
I don’t think the WaggleRoom community will ever be known for keeping on topic with laser-like focus. And that’s what’s truly great about it. Out of 500 or 1000 words, maybe it’s one thought that triggers 100 comments.
I personally didn’t mention Tom Watson because he didn’t say anything that made me want to say anything. But Court did. And now you did. I don’t really care to change your mind. I care to have a stimulating conversation and/or debate. If you want to talk about Tom Watson, then say something about him that will make me want to say something about him.
The Spotlight
I couldn’t imagine being in the spotlight like that. Tiger and the rest are always in the the lure of the media and their cameras. Every move they make is documented. You and I, the common hackers are not far behind though.
My buddy opened my eyes to the fact that the internet has made it easy to get information. I mean I already knew that but he was saying that we have to be careful what we do from this point forward. You never know what may end up coming public.
Say you’re up for a big job and the company does a background check. They decide to check your Facebook page. There they find a picture tagged to your profile of you passed out on the ground at a frat party. Sorry Charlie. No job for you.
Information is abundant and available. All those reporters who slam celebrities when they slip up better beware. Just about everyone has a few skeletons in their closets.
Here’s my feeling about what you described: if you’re willing to cut down someone in a public space, then you should be prepared to be cut down the same, if not more so. Watson is a veteran and he knew what he might be subject to by saying what he did.
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by Ryan Ballengee on Feb 5, 2010 5:59 PM EST up reply actions
Ryan,
veteran or not, sometimes one has a passion that requires speaking out…right , wrong or somewhere inbetween…not all people see things the same way…thank god for small favors…STUB
I have no problem with what Watson said. He has every right to do it (as I’ve repeatedly said). BUT – and read this very carefully – if Watson or anyone (myself included) is willing to criticize someone in public, they tacitly accept that they can be criticized in return.
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by Ryan Ballengee on Feb 5, 2010 6:19 PM EST up reply actions
Ryan's right......I must confess.....
I only played 9 holes today and didn’t post my score…..please be gentle with me, but I know the criticism must come……Ok….I’m ready.
The Saints are in the SUPER BOWL....WHO DAT!
HOW DARE YOU!
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by Ryan Ballengee on Feb 5, 2010 7:34 PM EST up reply actions
Is that cheating?
"The game is swell when it's played well."
by Fairways and Grins on Feb 5, 2010 7:51 PM EST up reply actions
Tit for Tat ?
Ya mean if I critique Woods I’ll have to put up with being criticized for stating my opinion ? Geez, I dunno Ryan. That seeems a bit harsh. What is the world coming too ? LMFAO Allright,…let’em bring it. I’ ve got my crying towel ready. :-)
you're still away,...choke on it !
damm em,
your just trying to get sympathy for the SB debacle of the Saints on Sunday…ain’t gonna work….Ryan, I don’t mind the criticism, that’s all part of speaking what’s on your mind and CONCIENCE….Maybe Mr. Watson isn’t perfect, but he spoke from his heart….and that’s a hell of a lot more than the mealy mouthed garbage pickers are willing to do…STUB
Stub.....by the way, what time do the Cowboys play?????
The Saints are in the SUPER BOWL....WHO DAT!
The one thing
that I agree completely with, is that Tiger needs to clean up his act on the golf course. I really don’t care what he does off it, but I would love to see him treat the game with a lot more respect. As far as what Tom Watson said about the other, to me it smacks of just a little bit of hypocrisy given his own silence and pleas for privacy when his private life came under the microscope.
Play it as it lies
On course,,of course..
That’s it Chip’n…..Tiger needs to come back as a better “sport” on course. Maybe he can get better control of himself on course, as well as off. His passions seemed to be over-flowing in both settings.
"The game is swell when it's played well."
by Fairways and Grins on Feb 5, 2010 7:51 PM EST up reply actions
Cruel Em, cruel
but that’s ok, I understand the pressure your under, and how it affects the mind…I have just one one thing to say about TIGARS return….Who really gives a big red rats behind, other than to see who is all kissing that behind….STUB
Personaly I've
Enjoyed the tournaments a lot more this year with Tiger. Moreplayers on TV, more variety and no drooling and groveling by the announcers. I played 18 holes today and shot 77 and posted it. Thats good for me since my heart attack a year ago and lack of playing. I’ll take it.
"pain is only weakness leaving the body"
we’ve only seen one tournament without Tiger this season – Torrey Pines is the only one he usually plays this time of year, and he missed it last year, too.
"this ball will fit in that fairway"
I knew that court
Was just trying to make a point without a long disertation.
"pain is only weakness leaving the body"

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